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12/22/2019
Christmas Greeting
12/11/2019
The Christmas Letter to 35 prisoners on a waiting list
I just got off the phone with the birthmother of my younger son. It was an open adoption when he was born in 1996, and we've stayed in touch. She's now in a half-way house and will be released back to where her family lives in mid-January. She seems in a good head space, and I was so happy to catch up.
I told her about discovering Stephen's Table. This is the group you met awhile back, and signed up to have someone write with you (which may not have happened yet). She affirmed that getting mail makes a difference. She affirmed that there are a lot of people who don't get any visitors or mail.
Even before I got this "thumbs up" from her, I've really enjoyed writing with three guys this year. Last month I met with the Chattanooga Endeavors staff to learn more about their work. I heard that they are short on volunteers to write to those people who've requested it. In the new year, I want to help them find some more volunteers. But for this month, I wanted to stand in the gap and to send you something.
Since November, I've been thinking a lot about you, and others who are spending the holidays in prison. The Christmas songs tell about this being "the most wonderful time of the year," but it can also be a really tough time for many. With all the traditions and hype, it compounds sadness for those of us who are having a tough time.
There have been a few years for me feeling blue during this season. Christmas celebrates the birth of Jesus and I'm a Christian ~ I have every reason to feel festive December! However, whether it was living overseas & away from extended family (for 17 years), or a rebellious season for one of my children (since 2009), or the death of a parent (2015, 2016, and 2019), there have been some sad holiday seasons for me.
I've never been in prison, though. So, I can't really know what it is like for you. I wanted to write to you and tell you that you are not forgotten, and that someone is thinking about you! I'm sure I'm not the only one. I don't know you personally, but here are some things I know about you:
· You are part of the human race, and valuablebecause you are uniquely and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14)
· You are skilled. (You can read this, can't you? So many in the world today still can't read!)
· You have the capacity to learn and take on more skills.
· You are able to problem solve.
· You are creative. Yes. Everyone is creative...even if you've not realized it yet.
· You have the capacity to choose to think positively when negative thoughts enter your mind. And then,
· You can influence others for good.
So, there you have it. A short list of some of the powerful, valuable things about you!
Note 8/29/20 ~ This letter got a bunch of responses. I wasn't expecting it, but now 13 are writing to me.
Some of their letters are so touching, or sad, or earnest.
I was hoping to spend my time recruiting more volunteers this year,
but Covid has made that difficult!
But it also has given me more extra time.
9/08/2019
Came across a sweet little slice of parenting. From 2018:
...the most touching thing that happened as your mom in recent years was your call to me the other week.
You knew you’d hurt my feelings a couple weeks ago.
You'd said that you didn’t want to date some nice girl from South Carolina a second time because, “She was a Southern-Belle version of you mom.”
Weeks had gone by since this hurtful report on your dating life, and you pursued a private phone conversation with me.
You wanted to let me know that you truly think I’m pretty swell. What I heard on that call was basically when you get your career path gets settled, and you had some more bachelor life dating-just-for-fun out of your system, [and perhaps a little therapy for working out your emotional kinks from being raised by perfect parents] you’d really like to find a girl half as good as me.
Well done. I promptly went and hung your pictures back up on the walls.
What a strange season this is where your life has had so many new experiences to fill us in on, while my reporting from the California home front, feels like a never-ending loop of the same kind of news.
But this time of helping my folks won’t last forever. I don’t know anyone who is farther down life’s road who regrets spending too much time with their parents. And there really is a sweetness right now, while Grammy Sue still knows who I am and also thinks I’m pretty swell. I wonder how much will change by Mother’s Day next year.
This past Mothers Day 2019 I was with Jim back in Asia celebrating with three pastors and their families. I was too busy with meetings and teaching to get my annual MOTHERS DAY letters written.
9/04/2019
A poem about El Dorado High's #72. What he'll be in 2072
5/15/2019
Quick Report from Vietnam
3/29/2019
Create the Future ~ Some Thoughts on Prophecy
There are many spiritual gifts listed in the Bible. Most of them we all will practice regularly, even when it is not "our gift."
As we mature in our faith, we grow in Faith, even though it may not be the Spiritual Gift of Exceptional Faith. If we are growing in our faith, we all will increase in our practice of Charitable Giving, Sharing our Faith with others, Hospitality and others.
The same is true for Prophecy.
When you think back over your life; have there been some people who spoke positively to you and how they envisioned your future? Who did this and how has that made a difference for you?
2/25/2019
Stay Faithful & Choose Joy - February eNews
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